You know you're capable of more. So why does it feel like you're holding back? 

No matter what level you're at, the majority of us hit this point.  Studies show that over 70% of people believe that they are capable of so much more, but feel stuck. 

What stops them from breaking through and getting to their next level? Overwhelm? Fatigue? Fear? Maybe all three.         

Even elite high performers feel it—the pressure, the frustration, the weight of knowing you’re capable of more, even after achieving significant milestones. 

Inside you is greatness, a mission, a mindset, and your unique genius the world needs.             

This is where you make your stand. This is where you activate it.  

Here’s the truth:

If most people feel this way, it’s not a personal flaw. It’s a pattern. 

And patterns can be broken.

You don’t need more pressure.

You need a better system—one that helps you think clearer, build stronger habits, and take bold, aligned action with confidence.

That’s exactly what the Ferocious Optimist Coaching Membership delivers.

✅ Live monthly coaching with me with Q&A to help you reset, refocus, and realign

✅ Weekly accountability and challenges to keep you moving forward

✅ A powerful, positive community that won’t let you quit on yourself

✅ Unlimited replay of sessions + downloadable tools & slide decks to create lasting change

You don’t need to have it all figured out.

You just need to start.

This is your path forward—and your launchpad to becoming unstoppable.

Group Coaching That Transforms—and a Community That Never Lets You Quit

Each month, you’ll join me for a live, interactive coaching session—a powerful 60-minute experience where I teach directly from the same high-performance frameworks I’ve used over 30 years as a leader, strategist, entrepreneur, Marine Raider, Force Recon Platoon Commander, and United States Marine Corps Lieutenant Colonel.

I’ll walk you through battle-tested strategies, mindset shifts, and leadership tools I developed over two decades leading elite teams—including commanding Marines in direct combat and in special operations, and building organizations from the ground up.

 You’re not getting recycled content.

You’re learning directly from a seasoned and battle-proven leader, Naval Academy graduate, Division I college football player, and dual master’s degree holder who’s built his life on discipline, clarity, and purpose—and coached thousands of others to do the same.

 These live sessions are not just motivation.

They’re practical, focused, and backed by decades of real-world results for myself and amazing clients around the US and world.

But here’s the game-changer:

You’re not doing this alone.

The Ferocious Optimist Community is your accountability circle—a powerful group of people committed to growth, action, and positive momentum.

Inside my private community, you’ll have:

✅ 24/7 access to conversations, questions, and encouragement

✅ Weekly challenges and daily prompts to keep you locked in

✅ Direct messaging with me, Ben Pappas—and yes, I actually respond

✅ Members sharing real wins, lessons, tools, and breakthroughs

This is your inner circle for transformation.

Because high performance doesn’t happen in isolation.

It happens with support, structure, and a standard.

And you’ll find all three—right here.

IS THIS COACHING MEMBERSHIP & COMMUNITY  RIGHT FOR YOU?

If you’ve been thinking about making a change—but something keeps holding you back—

You’re not alone.

You might be asking yourself:

 • “What if I can figure this out on my own?”

 • “I just don’t have the time right now.”

 • “I want to, but money’s tight.”

 • “I’ve done coaching before and it didn’t really help.”

 • “Group coaching isn’t for me—I need more personal support.”

These aren’t just objections.

They’re symptoms of deeper patterns—patterns that keep ambitious, capable people stuck.

 Let’s walk through them together.

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 “I can do it myself.” 

 Of course you can. You’ve likely carried a heavy load for a long time—and made it look easy.

But the truth is: going it alone isn’t a strength—it’s a trap. 

 Even the best in the world have a coach. Why? Because clarity, strategy, and accountability are the ultimate force multipliers.

 You don’t need more hustle.

You need support, structure, and a guide who’s been where you are—and knows how to take you where you’re meant to be.

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“I don’t have time.” 

 Totally fair. Life is full. But here’s the thing:

 Not having time is exactly why you need this. 

 This isn’t about piling more on your plate—it’s about clearing the noise and getting aligned.

We meet just once a month for a live group session, plus you’ll have access to short, focused tools you can revisit anytime.

 And if you need more hands-on help?

You can add 1-on-1 sessions and go deeper.

 Because when your energy is aligned with your mission, time works for you—not against you.

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 “I don’t have the money.” 

 I’ve been in your shoes. When you’re weighing bills, business, or life decisions—it’s easy to push your growth to the back burner.

 But here’s what I know after nearly 30 years of leading and coaching high performers:

When you commit to growth, life starts to open up. 

 This membership is designed to be affordable—because I wanted a path for people who are serious about moving forward but not ready for high-ticket private coaching.

 You’ll get life-shifting value, live guidance, a powerful network—and clarity you can build a life on. 

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 “I’ve tried coaching before. It didn’t work.” 

 Respectfully—was it coaching that didn’t work?

Or the wrong coach, wrong structure, or no real follow-through?

 I built this with one goal: results. 

 It’s not theory. It’s not fluff. It’s mission-driven coaching designed to break you through your biggest block, and keep you moving—month after month.

 And if you’ve never experienced the power of being in a room—live or virtual—with people who are growing together and calling each other higher…

You’re in for something different.

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 “Group coaching doesn’t work for me.” 

 Let’s reframe that.

 Group coaching works—when it’s built right. 

 You’ll be surrounded by ambitious, disciplined people on their own mission. People who get it. 

And when you feel that connection—iron sharpening iron—you won’t want to go back.

 And if you’re someone who needs personal depth too?

You’ve got the option to work with me directly, 1-on-1, through the blended membership.

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 The Truth? 

 If you’ve read this far, something in you is ready.

 You’re not here by accident.

You’re here because you know—it’s time.

 To stop playing small.

To stop stalling.

To stop hiding behind distractions and get serious about building the life you were born to live.

 I’m Ben Pappas. I spent 23 years leading in the Marine Corps as a Marine Raider, Force Recon, and Infantry Officer.  I've built and led both large organizations with a global impact and small special operations units of elite warriors in direct combat operations. I've also represented the highest levels of government as an official diplomat. I played Division I college football and have also been in the trenches as a varsity football coach.

Over the last decade, I’ve dedicated my life to coaching leaders, entrepreneurs, and high performers to step into their power.

I built this membership for you—

To rise, rebuild, and win the war within.